How to Attract Epic Love
Plus: Come see "Swipe Club" - a live show about dating online over 40 - in LA!
"It's in vulnerability and self-love that we find our true strength." - Lilli Buley
When I first spoke to Lilli Buley about coming on the Hotter Than Ever podcast, I felt like a hardhearted cynic. I’m not even a year out from being officially divorced and after dating a lot and falling in love during my separation, and then living through a breakup (they still suck), I have settled into a season of playful, sexy non-monogamy, radical honesty, and friends with benefits dynamics.
Episode 86 - How to Attract Epic Love with Lilli Bewley
But I know that not everybody is where I am at this moment, and that most women - even the most independent and self-sufficient among us - harbor a deep desire for epic true love.
With hard-won insight into the complexities of modern dating, Lilli’s love coaching is earnest and empowering. As she shares her point of view on different archetypes of women, all of whom you will recognize - from the chill woman, the fortress and the goddess to the magnetic woman - her approach to dating and searching for meaningful partnership is resonant and emotionally true. There’s so much inner work we all have to do to actually attract the kind of partners we truly deserve and not settle for second best, but according to Lilli, epic love awaits us all if we are willing to do that healing.
Episode 87 - Your Authenticity Is Your Secret Weapon with Kim Rittberg
“Every single person is special, but most of us are too afraid to show up in the world and let them see how special we are.”
Kim Rittberg is a straight-shooting New Yorker and she is hilarious. A former corporate media executive and journalist, she kicked her high-flying career to the curb in order to better balance her work with motherhood, which we all know is the biggest challenge of our working lives. Raise your hand if you relate…
Through the trials and tribulations of entrepreneurship, Kim has uncovered some powerful insights about the power of bringing almost your whole self to work. In this conversation, we take apart the idea of imposter syndrome and why we feel the way we do in environments that we’re not created by or for us. (For more inspo, check out Reshma Saujani’s Smith College commencement address Imposter Syndrome Is A Scheme).
My favorite part of my conversation with Kim is about authenticity and how showing up real is the new gold standard in communication and sales. Kim says if you’re just presenting information about your area of expertise, you might as well be reading the results of a ChatGPT prompt, but if you talk about what you know as your authentic self, bringing all of your quirks and specialness and peculiarities to bear on the conversation, you are much more likely to win friends and influence people.
Welcome to Swipe Club! - Live Show in LA!
After 21 years behind the scenes, I’m getting back on stage with a show I created and co-host with transformational coach and longtime friend Amber J Lawson. If you’re in LA, please come out and support!
Swipe Club is a live, interactive show exclusively for women 40+ who are dating online or considering taking the plunge into the dating pool. This ladies-only 90-minute romp combines information, inspiration, laughs, games, and real talk to deliver an engaging, empowering and fun night out.
Join us for a blend of expert advice, hilarious anecdotes, and heartfelt discussions that will leave you titillated, inspired, and ready to swipe with confidence. Whether you're navigating the murky waters of online dating or looking for sisterhood on this wild ride, Swipe Club offers the perfect mix of good times and valuable insights to help you on your dating adventures.
Get ready to transform your approach to dating, make meaningful connections, and have a blast along the way!
Deets:
Friday July 19th @ 8pm
The Crow @ Bergamot Station Arts Center
Santa Monica, CA
Tickets $25 / $20 with the code “flirty”
The Crow is a female/mom/comic owned and operated venue! More about their mission to make the world a better place through storytelling, comedy, music, and education can be found here.
Hope to see you there!
XO
Erin